this is the worst to deal with right now,
especialy after an exhausting project just ended.
sometimes people just clique even without having to share common interests, or be working on or doing anything together. Sometimes friendship blossom when you work on something together.
In any case, non-friend and me are still non-friend. But non-friend seems to not "get it". To non-friend, i am a friend.
I have nothing against non-friend, but I just know that this is a person I would not be having anything else more to do with other than compulsory work obligation. I don't see anything wrong with that.
With non-friend's own assumption that I am a good friend, my words an actions thus have impact on non-friend's emotion --- Duh! And it was such a silly impact.
I'm honoured that non-friend took me so seriously. But I'm sorry, to me, non-friend is really nothing at all -- until now, perhaps, with all the stupid drama non-friend has stirred me into.
I hope this will die NOW. What bothersome, annoying, irritating nonsense of non-friend.
I would not advice non-friend to "grow up" (non-friend is older than me)
I think non-friend should just try to be wiser, so that non-friend would come to realise that this is not the first conflict non-friend has had with other people, and that no one is really friend with non-friend.
Everyone is just being nice to each other and smile.
reader k | 9/12/2009 09:11:00 AM |