:: reader k ::

Sunday, May 20, 2007

sometimes we don't fall

fab noted to me that sometimes we don't fall.
it is true.

i remembered the year when A and I decided that we will sign the papers and be happily ever after; that we will quit our jobs and move to the unknown UK, where i have only one friend, Fab, and A has only one family, Granny.

it was scary.
but we were young and we know if we didn't do it then, we'd never will, again.

quit our jobs and with the only savings A had, mostly, we found a place, build our life there. he found a job, i took up part time to fill my own pocket money while i enjoy my time dwelling into my books for my MA.

home is like the safty net.
we can always come home.
we came back not because it was safe. we came back because we were needed.
it's good to be needed.

my boss wants to place me as advisor for my other committment, so that i can have more time for other tasks. S joked and said that i can't be advisor, because i'll end up doing the things myself, nothing left to advise.

i need to learn how to delegate.

delegate.
delegate.
don't fall.
don't fall.

reader k | 5/20/2007 12:28:00 PM |

3 Comments:

zlyrica said...: Kaka, don't worry la, we all faced such fear and dilemma b4 and perhaps more to come. Life has many hurdles to cross, many lessons to learn. When we failed, that doesn't mean we will carry that failure label throughout our lives. Failure only means we are not yet ready to win. Don't give yourself too much stress, you only add more pressure to yourself. All you need is to give your best. Sometimes, we take much longer time to succeed, i always think it's the journey that really matters... Even if you fall, you know you can stand up. It's a choice and don't make it an attachment.

Don't worry ok, like fab said you might not fall at all. Now, i shall end this comment with a brilliant quote...

"If you can solve your problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you cannot solve it, then what is the use of worrying? " -Shantideva; 12:51 PM
Fabien said...: I love that quote it is so bloody true - change what you can and don't worry about what is out of your hands since you cant change it anyway :D; 7:35 PM
morticia said...: Its very tiring to be needed..sometimes u'll be taken granted for..

let nature tk it course,dear.

hugz; 7:19 PM